1, should explain contraceptive knowledge to otherwise of high school student

Somebody thinks, not was necessary to tell, told the meeting is revulsive more adolescent happening sexual behavior, and more people think, very be necessary to tell, since the sexual behavior before marriage is mixed maiden first pregnant phenomenon cans be found everywhere, that end told contraceptive knowledge to be able to decrease as far as possible maiden first pregnant and induced abortion, the education that develops contraceptive knowledge appropriately in the adolescent that enters amative period is completely necessary, at present many countries and area are in the middle school begin involve sexual intercourse, use contraceptive, abort the sexual education that waits for content, if Japan begins sexual education from nursery school, taiwan already reached sexual education ahead of schedule elementary school high grade, such doing can decrease at least maiden first pregnant, be helpful for protecting health of teenage body and mind.  

2, masturbation is harmful

Someone thinks masturbation is ill, and more people think proper masturbation is harmless, from the whole nation " the gender is civilized " investigation makes clear, in all investigation object, what masturbate too is occupy 39% , and in the university, the scale of excessive of somebody new to a job of college of male and female is respectively 59% with 16.5% . American gold reports middle finger goes out on the west, occupy the ego stimulation that the person of 92% has had American total population to achieve orgasm, kinsey says or state with certainty: "We have all reason to believe, those research reports about inferior occurence rate are sure because investigation is lack fidelity,be " . Because,this is, a lot of people think masturbation is the thing of a dishonour, it is the thing that should be penalized even, admit it has worry so, really, masturbation is physiology not only to the person's influence those who go up, and be mentally, came 100000, traditional idea thinks masturbation is " evil " , be " kill " of the body, "An essence, 10 blood " , loss " yuan in relief " , difficult all one's life year. This kind " masturbation horror is talked " the viewpoint is right teenage thought pressure is very great, also of dispute science, for the angle from science, from practical effect for, we cannot be not scientific conduct propaganda already " masturbation horror is talked " , also cannot publicize termlessly " masturbation is harmless theory " , excessive become harmful, and should let matters drift, strengthen guide.  

3, period, pregnancy, postpartum whether sexual intercourse

Press a convention, period does not advocate sexual intercourse commonly, because right now the film inside female uterus falls off, uterine wall has fresh and traumatic side, uterine mouth is ajar, if sexual intercourse is feculent, can cause bacterial infection, cause endometritis or pelvic infection, still can cause massive haemorrhage sometimes, in last few years, also a few scholars think, the genital before wanting sexual intercourse only is paid attention to clean clean, can make love 365 days a year, period sexual intercourse can not have pregnant Lv, the vagina is lubricant, and some males like to see blood. But the domestic sanitation condition of uptodate China, cannot means of sexual life of apply mechanically west, period or with making love advisable, especially generous of female classics blood a few days, should prohibit making love.  

Pregnancy sexual intercourse presses convention also is not advocated, but be pregnant nine the middle of a month, male asexuality lives pitch of its sex intensity cans be imagined, except advocate brim sexual behavior, process sexual behavior is used between husband and wife replace purpose sexual behavior besides, also can be among pregnancy 4 months, keep away from namely 3 months after 3 months mix begin, make love appropriately, pay attention to coital movement to answer right now gentle, to abdomen cannot weigh, can adopt a bed to fall or female on male below or hind type is inserted.  

About puerperium whether the problem that lives sexual life, shanxi produces period sex psychology and sexual behavior analysis to make clear to 125 women pregnant, in light of the situation that produces sexual intercourse from puerperium, they have sexual interest grumous, sexual organs restores good, sexual desire hopes overall level runs a point high, at this moment sexual intercourse, the sex that a kind of sexual love that is deep feeling causes is actuation, what a sexual hegemony in the husband and another kind of gender occupation fall is obedient, but former it is main, additional, investigation still makes clear, literacy rate is low, the occurence rate of puerperium sexual intercourse that is engaged in physical labor is high, and literacy rate is high, an occurence rate that is engaged in mental work is inferior, traditional view is, the woman has given birth to the 60-80 day after the child, genital official restores to be less than antenatal condition, the body also is less than normal and healthy level, add baby of mother milk feed, the body is used up bigger, answer not to live sexual life as far as possible so. During restoring especially, the secretion between palace antrum with lochia form from vaginal eduction body outside, local revolt power is low, make love prematurely to bring about easily at this moment bacterial infection, cause pathological change.  

4, oral sex is mean

From the whole nation " the gender is civilized " in light of investigation data, 12.5% what spouse of male undergraduate sexual takes all man student, of spouse of female undergraduate sexual occupy 6.3% , the average age that they begin to make love is 18.41% years old, and among them many people have genital- - the sexual behavior that the mouth contacts, its are average the age is 17.1 years old, have genital with the same sex? The mouth contacts occupy 0.4% . Long-term since, oral sex, call a mouth excessive again, be considered as " indelicacy " " hangdog " sexual behavior, however foreign scholar thinks, oral sex is " healthy, mix benignantly wonderful " , think to want deep earnest of feeling of husband and wife only, both sides is healthy, woman vagina does not have inflammation, man oral cavity does not have ulcer, the oral sex between husband and wife is above criticism, want both sides to feel pleasure is mixed only cheerful, it does not have harm to society, other, oneself, should be not condemned so, some scholars think even, woman genital is rinsed clean cleaner than the mouth, man genital is rinsed clean cleaner than the hand, the proportion that there is oral sex in western country husband and wife is very high, amount to half number left and right sides, husband and wife of the old age in some, go out when the male impotent when, serve as coital prelude with oral sex, can yet be regarded as a method that penis of male of an old age in making erects, because our country is wholesome shower condition is defective still, the scale city woman that woman vagina has inflammation instead over country woman, amount to 44% the left and right sides, the means making love of reason oral sex also wants because of the person different in our country, both neither wants to be advocated energetically, also do not open up for " indelicacy " " hangdog " , this just is one of regular way that love makes between healthy husband and wife.

   5, masturbation tool and sexual medicine whether sale

Current, maiden man has 30 years old of above of our country about 9.9 million, to 2000 the whole nation will have 50 million ruffian Chinese, beijing has now lone person 600 thousand, qingdao has 420 thousand, the sex of these people starves how the problem is solved, does sexual outlet where? Masturbation is a main outlet, but nowhere buys masturbation tool, appeared so a lot of substitute, both neither sanitation, very dangerous. Not long ago ever had appeal of a doctor to should develop masturbation tool as soon as possible, can be in be commissioned to sell sth of concerned outpatient service, this also is a the society is stable concrete step. As to sexual medicine, there already were many remedies that treat impotent, premature ejaculation on the market at present, but the sexual medicine that enhances sexual quality, stimulative sexual desire has not seen public sale, but be in in remote border, medium old border yes the sales volume on market trade is very large. Burmese boss is mirrorred, the investigation group personnel that a lot of inland go is bought in succession, female member is bought particularly eagerly, visible people is need. Why people needs we do not produce a sale, instead lets a foreigner make money, let fake cheat our money? In the past, sexual life of husband and wife basically is to give birth to male Yo female, be continuous unborn and now basically is to satisfy the need of physiology of husband and wife and psychology, turn by birth culture for enjoyment culture, this develops the tool that increases sexual delight and the medicaments that do not have side-effect with respect to need.  

6, husband and wife can see sexual science and education record photo

In last few years, china is being swept all the time yellow, forbidden privately is made, traffic yellow to record photo, such also doing of a lot of states on the world, but for knowledge of sex of promotional husband and wife, improve sexual life quality, by produce a film of department of concerned sexology research husband and wife of a few report makes love the sexual science and education of posture and sexual life knowledge records photo, be very be necessary. Accomplish truly " A-certificate " , before making love for husband and wife only, watch, or show in school of newly-married husband and wife, or watch in sexual dysfunction clinic, this also can be accomplished stage by stage. Should learn to distinguish in practice bawdy, pornography and scientific bounds, this points to the video goods such as collection photo not only, and include sexology book, also should promise to be published publicly.  

7, the homosexual calculates do not calculate crime

Long-term since, there are many people to inspect a homosexual to be criminality in China, it is morality rots at least, tone is harsh, but, sexology considers to make clear, homosexual generation has biology heredity, bad situation is affected, the many sided reason such as psychological mutation, cannot entirely returns for crime, want particular case concrete analysis, to a few otherer such as peeps shade addiction, attrition addiction, different installs the sexual allergy behavior such as addiction to also should take scientific and cautious attitude, want to pay attention to judicatory to carry out be the lucky number to fasten especially, want already none ground of be irresolute when firmness is needed hits scampish crime, want distinction to treat again those who have anomalous sexual behavior is unusual person.  

8, the presence of extramarital love affection is reasonable

Somebody thinks, existence is reasonable, since extramarital love, "Draw near shoulder " the phenomenon arrives outside have, and have add without decrease, so, confirm it is objective need, have the inevitability of existence. Another some of person thinks, because existing of love and marriage separative, dead marriage leaves other firm difficult labyrinthian sex, the sex of dissociate of emotive of husband and wife that adjusts hard and externalism, the narrow sex that opposite sex association surrounds and close the element such as the gender, extramarital love affection is hard to disappear, crucial point should lead do sth in the proper way. Somebody thinks, association of male and female can divide for 4 class: Opposite sex friend, extramarital affair bosom, extramarital love affection and " a third party " . Can advocate friend of the opposite sex that make a written guarantee, cherish extramarital affair bosom, treat extramarital love condition cautiously, advocate ascensive development and the moral principle that do not have harm of one's own accord, accomplish a men and women to interact not to hurt public mood hard, do not harm the family of other, do not hurt health of body and mind, do not hurt privacy advantageous position, do not answer to build oneself happiness on the anguish of others. Investigation makes clear, with " a third party " the scale that gets married finally only 17% , and truly happy just 5% . What live as material is rich, the grow in quantity that the society interacts, people increased to mental demand, general trends is in the enlarge that interacts between the men and women to go surely, those who hold contact of good men and women " degree " , produce the openly effect of opposite sex friend and extramarital affair bosom adequately, in advocating a men and women to interact comfortable and good-tempered, looking is a when border of go-between of prospective society progress concerns new task.  

9, meretricious whether be brought into the public, legalization

Scholar of some wests sex puts forward to should make meretricious be brought into the public, legalization, decrease thereby venereal, actually, be in early 1989, the world initiates each country about the organization meretricious legalization and systematism, execute a hooter fixed check-up, hang out one's shingle service system, my state-owned scholar also puts forward to establish " sexual special zone " , or " sexual service classifications processing means " problem, their jumping-off place may be good, but this kind of issue is very complex, if execute meretricious be brought into the public, legalization, still one is plant very large possibility is to make walk the street filthily go whoring the phenomenon becomes aggravated, although our country ancient time and area of the part before liberating also had had male prostitute history, but on the world a few countries and area " smokeless type industry " develop and do not have true pare or decrease venereal and socially sexual problem, the gender commits a crime, accordingly, this action shows level at least in our country won't do, advocate active, healthy, pure and fresh gender culture just is advisability to lift only.  

10, old age wifeless few whether live together lawfully

In cohabitational become a common practice of western country men and women, be acquiesced mostly, but mix as a result of traditional morality in China the tie of folkway folk-custom, blame marriage lives together to be thought light it is immoral, break the law again. But investigation makes clear, proportion of wifeless few of our country old age is quite high, different area amounts to 1/3 or 1/2 left and right sides respectively, common saying says: "Often will have partner is blessing " , "Full hall of children and grand children does not touch husband and wife half bed " , sexology considers to make clear again and again, old people also has sexual desire and sexual capacity. But old people remarries difficulty is very great, basically be children rejects, the old person that can let exceed 60 years old mutual coordinate, cohabitational life and do not marry get card, nonexistent belongings continues and suffer the problem that carries children? Reform, open already arrived deep each domains, only the reform of marital family system is late however, to improve the life quality of old age wifeless few, let them have a mutual coordinate, not drag in concerns to a series of complex families problem, belongings problem, the person that China has some of sociology put forward to let them " live together lawfully " bold tentative plan and construction, already received the approval of many a man of insight.